Bose Oladimeji, popular Yoruba actress has called it quit with her live -in- lover over what she described as his sexual and domestic abuse while the relationship lasted.
In an interview Bose who was visibly angry declared, “But what I found odd about him is the forceful way he has sex with. No foreplay, nothing, just to jump on me and forces his way through. No affection, no cuddling, no romance just brutal sex. I was raped like this most nights, and usually followed by beating and insults.”
The popular actress said this informed her decision to call it quit with the two year old live-in relationship.
Bose explained further that she could neither bear the brutal sex nor the domestic abuse, while the relationship lasted threatening her life.
Said she, “Yes I’m ready to go. In fact, I’m not with him right now. I just have to run for my life. My life is very precious to me. I can’t just allow someone to kill me like that and I want to address some ladies out there that they should not love a guy because of what he gives them. They should be sure the love is genuine and not be fooled by money and comfort. I’m leaving right now. I need to run away for my life. I need to save myself. My life will be in danger if I continue to stay with him, so I’m leaving right now.”
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She made the clarification in a chat with Potpourri, saying: “Whenever he’s drunk he’s out of his senses and starts misbehaving, beating me. He acts very crazy. Any weapon he sees around he uses it on me but when he is sober he starts to regret whatever he has done. What I’m saying is that in the process of beating me what if I collapse and die or get injured, what will people say?” she said with agony in her eyes.
On why she went into the relationship in the first place, she said, she was not aware of the ugly side of his character, as he managed to shield it from her by acting like a perfect gentleman.
She added: “We meet in the club through a friend and he was well presented and loving, humble and respectful and he spent a lot of money that night but after everything, to be honest, we went home separately. The following day we hooked up and that was how it all started. He was taking good care of me and that was one of the reasons I fell in love with him. But what I found odd about him is the forceful way he has sex with. No foreplay, nothing, just to jump on me and forces his way through. No affection, no cuddling, no romance just brutal sex. I was raped like this most nights, and usually followed by beating and insults.”
